The capacity to lead is an extraordinary skill. Good leaders learn to first recognize and then manage change. They inspire others with their passion, creativity and the willingness to listen.
Last month, a woman played in a Mens Pro Golf Tournament. For those of you who dont follow the golfing world outside of Tiger Woods, this was not only controversial, it drew new attention to the differences between men and women in sport, and why a woman would find it even remotely appropriate to play in a mans tournament. What effect would this have on a traditionally male dominated sport and whats wrong with playing in your own sandbox?
A quick education on Womens Golf: Annika Sorenstam is the Tiger Woods of Womens Golf. She is young, talented, and wins just about every tournament she plays. So why would she pursue something so unorthodox? Is it Ego, money, attention, or desire to push beyond the traditional limits?
I bring this novel feat to your attention because it is not about men vs. women, or can/should a woman play in a mens tournament. It is all about leadership and the value learned from her experience. As a coach, the question of the day is:
What is the impact for Annika by playing at the Colonial Golf Tournament and how will this transform her course? Heres how it plays out for me.
The Top of the Mountain
Imagine truly being at the top of your game, regularly being in the zone, and you have nothing but blue sky in front of you. You then stop to contemplate and ask what more can I learn, where can I grow, is their more to my game, and what would happen if I were able to stretch just that little bit more? Am I really at the top of my own mountain?
Admiration
How many of us are willing to risk everything weve known--- in Annikas case her status as the top woman golfer in the world, confidence, the role or position she has earned in the golfing community, and her sense of self. She knowingly subjected herself to intense media scrutiny that questioned her motives, and was the target of other golfers who didnt appreciate her presence. Can you imagine what she must have been feeling as she teed off that first day?
Choices
My assessment of her choice to play at the Colonial is that she could have continued as the dominating womans on the LPGA Tour. Instead, she chose to ask am I capable of more? By expanding her universe, exposing her game for what it is and what it is not requires courage, moxy, and ambition. She took off the safety belt and dove in.
Annika is a role model for all of us and has shown us the value of strengthand not allowing fear to put artificial limitations on how we traditionally think. Its about performance. To the women golfers and other athletes, she has shown them that they too are capable of more, can raise their game and become more competitive. Take yourself back to a time when you were on top of the world, and you had a moment to think about how you got there. Now ask yourself if you are there today. If not consider these questions:
- What is the most important thing you want to accomplish this year?
- What is the most exciting thing happening right now that you are not taking advantage of?
- What goal would really stretch you right now/?
- How are you going to do that?
Applying Leadership and Growth
Requesting more of ourselves vs. resting on our laurels can have a huge impact on our companies and our personal lives. What we may find around the corner is a renewed appreciation for ourselves/organizations and new skills that allow us to raise our standards to increase our performance and amplify our contribution. When we are willing to risk what we already are, we create new opportunities. The very definition of evolution and entrepreneur starts with challenging individual responsibility, creativity and risk.
Making the Stretch
What are the qualities you most admire in elite athletes and leaders and how do these qualities apply to you? Some examples are:
- Focus
- Discipline/dedication
- Natural talent/ability
- Competitive nature/drive
- Desire
- Passion
- Mastery
They exemplify what we value most. Where in your life are you willing to find out whats next, and what is possible?
Qualities of a Leader
As I stated earlier, this is not a battle between the sexes. It is about examining our own abilities, and as leaders asking more of ourselves while being open to growthwherever it comes from-- breaking down traditional barriers and pushing through to a new level.
How the story ends
So how did Annika do? At the conclusion of day 1 at the Colonial, she was at par, and on the second day struggled and did not make the final cut. Since the Colonial, she has won her last two tournaments. Quoting her after last weekends playoff win: At the Colonial it was the journey to winning. Maybe with all that pressure I experienced then, thats what helped me to pull through today.
Based on these results, do you think she is better off today for taking the risk? I think she demonstrates living your best life. I wish her great success, whatever that ends up being.